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How to Handle Embarrassing Classroom Moments

The other day on my personal blog I talked about what I would do if I had to work with someone closely who had really bad breath. One of the comments mentioned having a teacher who had bad breath, and it made me think about my own experiences with my own teachers and started to wonder about my students. This also made me think about how I handled this as a new teacher, and I remember not even wanting to think of things like this when I first started, much less knowing how to handle them. Here are some ways I addressed certain sensitive issues in my class. (I have to be honest and say all of these have happened to me.)

Bad Breath:

I remember having teachers who had bad breath, and I would rather not know how to do something than ask them for help. So, I try to make sure after lunch that I have a breath mint. If I’ve eaten something really strong (I really love things with garlic!), I warn the class about it and tell them I will try not to overwhelm them with my breath if they need help. I even tell them if it is so bad, I will let a peer try to help them.

Unzipped zipper:

During the first week I tell my class that this happens to everyone, and if they see me with my fly open on my pants, to PLEASE tell me about it. I do not want to go through the whole day like this and realize that no one told me about it. I also will do the same to them, and hopefully none of us will feel too embarrassed about it. I would rather a momentary embarrassment rather than wondering how many people saw me like this!

Inside out clothes:

I once wore a solid colored shirt inside out and didn’t find this out until lunchtime when finally another teacher asked me if that was a new style. Again, I mentioned this to the class and asked them to let me know.

Static Cling:

Have you ever gotten something out of the dryer to wear and didn’t know that there was another article of clothing clinging to it? Then you wear it all day with that “hitchhiker” along? I wore a pair of washable pants with a clingy sock hanging out of the pants leg and didn’t notice it until it finally fell off at the end of the day. I ask that someone just tell me! Everyone knows how mean kids can be so save me from the hallway snickering and giggling please!

Wearing shoes of two different colors:

I love this particular shoe style and bought two pairs: one black and one blue. I didn’t want to wake my husband up since I get up so early, so I got dressed in the dark. Luckily, I saw them before school started and called my husband to bring me another shoe. Of course he asked me which one, and I told him that it didn’t matter because it would match either one. I couldn’t believe I had done that. Unfortunately, I had to wear the mismatched shoes to first period, so we had a lesson in observation. We played a five minute observation warm up. I gave them 60 seconds to look at me and then put my coat on as I sat behind my desk. I asked them to write down everything I was wearing. We turned this lesson into using descriptive words and observing details. Finally I stepped out from my desk and took off my coat to show them the two different shoes. We all had a good laugh about it, too. I also stressed that when you get dressed, make sure you look in a mirror before you leave home!

I’m sure these are only a few of the stupid things I’ve done, but it definitely helped my relationship with my students. They had an opportunity to see me as a human being, and I was able to model how it could be handled. These things happen, so it is important for a teacher to have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at themselves.

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